No words requried. Filmed in November.
12/20/07
12/18/07
8 Months and the story about your name
Our new favorite thing is to take baths together. It's hard to imagine how we all three fit into the tub, but we do and it's a blast. Floating in warm water with soft baby, skin to skin. It's wonderful.
You continue to creep around the room and sometimes you position yourself to crawl (but you don't quiet know how to yet). You can pretty much go and get whatever you want, if we let you. A good way to get you to move around is to place a bottle of milk within close proximity. You will do whatever it takes to go and get it. It's fun to watch you do that. You are very serious about your bottle. You know exactly what it is and if you only see it, you want it immediately like you haven't eaten anything all day.
Up & Down
You absolutely love the "Johnny Jump Up." When we first put you in it a couple of weeks ago you didn't really know what to do. Now, you can't get enough of jumping up and down and turning around. This little video is unfortunately sideways again. One day we'll get a better camera. Turn up the volume for some Christmas cheer.
12/12/07
Pump & Dump
Speaking of breastmilk, I think we are approaching the end of breastfeeding. It's not over yet, but we are getting close. While at the conference, I got increasingly lazy about pumping when I should have. It doesn't take long for the supply to slip away, and it's hard to get it back. I haven't mentioned yet that your first tooth made it's appearance a couple of weeks back. And yes, you have bitten down, hard. It's only happened once so far. Ouch!!! I couldn't help but cry out. You looked at me confused followed by a big smile. I wasn't smiling and have been anxious about that happening again. You are also very distracted now when breastfeeding, constantly looking away at what else is happening...wait was that bella that just walked by (you turn head and look)? or oh, wait, is that papa going up the stairs?
Since last week, I am making half the milk during the day than what I used to. I don't think it will come back. I was actually hoping that we would find the right time to stop together, which I feel like we are. I didn't have a plan to how long I would breastfeed. The plan was to wait and see.
I am thankful that we have come this far without real complications or infections. Sure it was painful the first 10 days, but that was to be expected. High five, son!
12/6/07
Away again
I am currently on the 27th floor of the Marriott Hotel in Baltimore. I have been here since Tuesday and will get to go back home on Saturday. Long time to be away from you and Frank :(
Fortunately, this is a very exciting gathering of my peers, people that work to promote and support arts education around the country. It's a very interesting and inspiring group. It's the type of conference that gets me all excited about what I do. It reminds me of the big picture and the impact we have. It's easy to forget the importance and impact of our work as sometimes it seems like I am just shuffling papers and answering emails all day. It's easy to get lost in the daily routine just going through the motions, day after day. It's nice to get a chance to refuel and re-energize.
It's even more important for me right now to know that I am doing something worthwhile. It helps me to justify being so far away from you, not just now but every day.
It will be interesting to see what you will end up doing one day. I know I am thinking far, far, ahead, but I can't help but wonder. Most importantly, I hope that it will be something you are passionate about, no matter how challenging it might be.
Shortly I am off to a reception at an amazing museum here called the Visionary Art Museum, one of my favorite places.
12/2/07
Baby on board
12/1/07
Breaking news
11/28/07
Where is time?
11/15/07
Places to go, Things to see
11/13/07
Sunshine all around
Three-day weekends are the absolute best. There is time for a little bit of everything.
Marie, Clay & Daphne came to visit from New York. It was exciting to see Daphne meet you for the first time. I grew up with her and her twin sister Vera. We share wonderful memories together which will connect us for the rest of our lives. I hope you will make friends like that.
It's surreal to think about when we would talk about what we might do when we grow up or what we might be like, and how much fun it will be when our kids play together.
11/7/07
Deficit
When I came home last night, you were laying on the sofa drinking your last bottle. Your eyes sparkled and you made your gurgle happy to see you sounds when you saw me just like when we pick you up from day care. It's heartbreaking.
What I know for sure is that you are well taken care off at your day care. We couldn't be happier with the women that cares for you and I know you like her too. I feel extremely lucky that I found her. However, it doesn't diminish the feeling of guilt knowing that you spend more time with her than with us.
11/2/07
Boo-hoo
Here is super-pumpkin about to take off:
I somehow managed to have two heads - pretty scary!
11/1/07
First word?
10/26/07
10/23/07
Schedule
10/22/07
Big Boys
Another highlight of the weekend was the deals we found at the yard sales Saturday morning.
We got some great clothes for you - overalls, pants, PJ's, shirts, 3 pairs of shoes (including the cutest New Balance tennis shoes), jacket, radio flyer wagon, play mat and some other toys - all for $15. Everything is in great shape too. I think some of the pants were actually never worn since it still had the nylon thingy for the tag. I am not surprised that some clothes will not be worn since you little baby's grow like weeds. From now on I will skip old navy and check out the yard sales instead (at least I'll try :))
We found out at the doctor today that you are 28" long, 15.12 pounds and 17 3/4 head circumference. Long and lean (and a BIG head). I wouldn't be surprised if that will be the case in 16 years too.
10/18/07
Miraculous
10/16/07
6 Months!
You have been babbling a lot more too, especially in the mornings. After your breakfast, you lie in between us while we try to get a couple of more minutes of sleep and you just start talking, talking, and talking. It's pretty funny. Waking up to your stories is delightful.
You are definitely starting to look more like a little boy and not just a baby anymore. We will have to wait for the measurements when we go to the doctor next week for your 6 month check up.
Of course you are taking everything in your mouth that you can get your hands on. Sometimes you even try to take a big bite off my face and neck! It's pretty funny.
10/15/07
10/12/07
Beautiful in many ways
10/10/07
Thank god for coffee
10/9/07
Email from April 18th
Just waking up from a short nap. My breasts are sore as hell and hanging from me like sand bags. Breast feeding is going well though considering it's challenges. last time I fed him, 2 hours ago, my breasts were like fountains of milk, literally overflowing. It's crazy. I can't get him to eat enough. I am supposed to feed him every 2-3 hours during the day. He sleeps so much, I spend a lot of time trying to wake him up so that he can eat. Often times when it seems like I got him to wake up, as soon as he latches on he falls back asleep.....so keeping him awake is challenging too! But when he does latch on and eats, it's an awesome feeling (even though it burns).
We already had to go to the pediatrician today. It went well. He likes riding in the car and barely cried the entire time. He got his hepatitis B vaccine and they checked his vitals. He also gained two ounces since leaving the hospital yesterday, which is great. baby's actually loose weight after they are born. His birth weight was 8.3 pounds and when we left the hospital he was 7.6 pounds. In about a week he should be back to his birth weight.
Leaving the hospital yesterday went well. I was totally disoriented when we drove home and felt like I just got out of a long movie. It was weird. Part of me was definitely looking forward to getting home, and the other part was nervous. I had a great experience being in the hospital. The care was outstanding. All the nurses were super nice and helpful. I wish I could have taken them with me! They have nurses that come by just to help you with breast feeding. It was a nice feeling to know you can ring the bell any second and someone will come and help you. Miles didn't make one beep the whole ride home which was reassuring. He rarely cries - mostly when we change his diaper. the first hour at home was a bit frantic but after we got settled it felt good. there are definitely more details I could get into.....there are so many feelings, emotions....my mind is still trying to catch up with my body and reality. I am still trying to understand that I don't have a baby in me anymore. Obviously he is here now, but sometimes my mind just can't catch up.
he is such a wonderful baby, I feel so lucky. I didn't know that baby's could smell that good, are so soft and adorable. the whole thing is more amazing than I can write, especially while sleep deprived, on Percocet, and owner of two heavy ass burning breasts.
i apologize that this email is very disorganized, but this is the best I can do right now.
time to wake up miles.....wish me luck.